No one really prepared me for how hard the postpartum phase would be. I thought the hardest part would be labor, but honestly, it was everything that came after.
The sleepless nights hit hard. I had to wake up constantly, and breastfeeding wasn’t going smoothly. My milk didn’t come in right away, and that made me feel frustrated and even a little sad. I wanted so badly to breastfeed only, but seeing my baby hungry… I just couldn’t take it. I ended up giving a little formula, and even though part of me felt guilty, I knew it was the right thing in that moment and let me tell you something;
You are not alone. It’s not easy, but I promise, you can get through this. I know how overwhelming it can feel, but you’re doing your best and that’s enough.
So eventually, my milk came in and I was so happy. That sadness I had been carrying started to lift. But there was still one more thing that made it hard: the pain of breastfeeding. That’s when I started using Lansinoh Lanolin Nipple Cream, and it honestly saved me. It helped relieve the soreness and allowed me to keep going. Over time, my baby went from getting a little bit of formula to exclusively breastfeeding.
But let me be clear I’m not here to say breastfeeding is better. To all the formula feeding moms: you’re doing amazing too. Getting up in the middle of the night to make bottles, holding your baby close while you feed them—that’s love. And love is what really matters.
That’s all for today. I just wanted to share my story in case it helps even one mama feel a little less alone. Whatever you choose breast, formula, or both, you know your baby best, and your decisions are valid. You’re doing great, mama. 💕